60 things girl should know about a guy =)

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 5 guys..you're a HOE)

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3... Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-an

d-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14... Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn't mean he represents ALL of us.

52. We don't like girls who are too skinny.

53. We love it when girls talk about there boobs.

54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like whether it's a one time deal or not ......

55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unnoticeable tell them about yours...

56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

59. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

60. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.


p/s: addicted to those NOTES from FAcebook...=))

the perfect BF ever...cos its also really hard to get one=)

一。每天睡觉之前一定要给她打一个电话，不管你有多晚，
因为她一直在等你，只是她嘴上说不管。
二。就算你再忙，你也不能一连好几天不给她短信或电话，
或者对她忽冷忽热，因为这样会让她很恐慌，是不是自己又
做错了什么。任何时候不要让她找不到你，因为这样她会一
直很不安心。
三。 就算她跟你无理取闹你也要原谅她，因为她那是在测试你在
乎她的程度。因为她那是缺乏安全感
四。你要经常去她的个人主页，即使什么也不留下，但是她
看到你来过的记录也会很开心。
五。你问她想不想你时，如果她说不想，你一定要很开心，
因为她的不想就是想。
六。和她发短信时，字数一定要比她的多，这样她会觉得你
是在乎她的。
七。对她对你已经说过一万遍的关心，不要不耐烦的说知道
了知道了，要很感动的说谢谢，因为那真的都是她出自内心
的关心。
八。当她关心你时，不要说出：原来你也会关心我这样的话
。这样会很伤她心，因为这对于她来说是一种很大的否定。
九。当你和她打电话时，你一定要她先挂你的电话，即使她
说了一百遍要你先挂。
十。千万要记得她都是害羞的，不要什么都让她主动。
十一。即使最后你们还是不能走到一起，记得，一定要跟她
说清楚，分手一定要让她说出，因为她是为你折翅的天使。
十二。分手后，千万不要再对她说出以后还是朋友这样的话
，因为这样她会觉得自己很悲哀。
男朋友就是每天不厌其烦的陪你吃饭、送送你上下班的那个
人；
男朋友就是虽然身上没什么钱，也会请你吃饭的那个人；
男朋友就是早晨你醒来时第一个想到的那个人；
男朋友就是能跟你打电话聊到半夜都舍不得挂的那个人；
男朋友就是在你最艰难的时候陪伴在你身边的那个人；
男朋友就是为了不让你担心，无论出了什么事都要自己默默
承担的那个人；
男朋友就是手机里总是存满你给他发的短信，直到信箱满了
都舍不得删掉的那个人;
男朋友就是无论你是不是漂亮都会夸赞你漂亮的那个人；
男朋友就是常察看你的手机纪录，确信跟你常联系的都是你
的女性朋友才放心的那个人；
男朋友就是在你任性、耍小脾气时，也会忍住脾气不会冲你
发火的那个人；
男朋友就是看到你流泪时，为你擦去泪水给你一个温暖拥抱
的那个人；
男朋友就是就算你犯了错误，也舍不得骂你的那个人；
男朋友就是可以在车站等你很久也不会介意的那个人；
男朋友就是明明最不喜欢逛街，还能陪你一家一家的逛到你
觉得满意为止的那个人；
男朋友就是有着宽厚的肩膀可以让你随时依靠的那个人；
男朋友就是吃饭时放慢速度等你的那个人；
男朋友就是总是让你走在马路内侧的那个人；
男朋友就是过马路时会紧紧拉住你的手的人；
男朋友就是就算情人节也不会买花给你，让你对他又爱又气
的那个人；
男朋友就是深夜为你开着手机的那个人；
男朋友就是当你读到这篇文章时立刻会想到的那个人...


p/s: from facebook also=)

Gambateh my honey *bee* love

baby, gambateh fighting for ur FYP and thesis=)
i m sure you can do well in whatever matter..
u know y?
cos u r my superman=)

and you are my hero too=)

Our LOVE will help us go thru hard and sweet time=)
so gambateh my honey *bee*

深夜你的手機為誰開

女孩每天臨睡會先關掉手機，然後把它放在寫字台自己的相

框架前，

這個習慣從買了手機的時候就這樣保持著。

女孩有個很要好的男朋友，兩個人不見面的時候，就打打電話或發發短信，

大家都喜歡這樣的聯絡方式。

有一天夜裡，男孩很想念女孩子，打了過去卻關機，因為女孩子已經睡著了。

第二天，男孩對女孩子說：“以後晚上不要關機，好嗎？我想你的時候找不到你，心會不安。”

從那以後，女孩開始另一種習慣整夜都不關機。

因為害怕他打來自己會因睡著而聽不到，女孩夜夜都很警醒，人便日日消瘦。

然而，慢慢地，兩個人之間還是有了裂痕。

女孩很想挽回即臨分手的局面，便在一個深夜裡給男孩打電話，

回答她的是很好聽的女聲：sorry，你所撥打的電話已關機。　　

於是女孩知道，她的愛情已經關機。

很久以后，女孩有了另一場愛情。

即使兩個人在一起的感覺也很好，但女孩怎麼也不肯嫁。

女孩的心裡還是會想起那個男孩的話和那個關機的夜。

女孩還是保持著整夜不關機的習慣，只是不再期待它會響起。

一天夜裡，女孩身染急症，慌亂之中把本想撥給父母的電話，卻打通了這個男孩的電話，這個男孩沒關機。女孩平安地恢復了健康。

後來女孩問男孩：“為什麼深夜還不關機？”

男孩說：“我怕你夜裡有事情找不到我，會心慌。”

女孩最終嫁給了男孩。

是啊，你的手機，深夜裡為誰開？

你會不會怕她找不到而心慌，愛一個人，有一份等待，就會在深夜裡習慣性的開機。

有一個可以開機等候你的人，那是一種深深的幸福..



p/s: copy from fb=)

First two days of training...

well..i had started my working as a telemarketer at Teledirect, my fren's company..
Y i get in this company?
hmm....i think i can earn some extra pocket money for my UK study trip=p
lolx...but..dunno la...feels like it's not as easy as wat i thought before..Feels like it's quite tough for me to handle the job and make the sales ='(
however, i ll gambateh to earn the commission so that i can shopping at UK..hihi..Well, it's some kind of motivation for me..hihi

Two days of training is over, 6 days to go as the whole training programme is 8days..
feels like dun wanna to go fo the training lo as i gotta form the group my own..sien..cos my product just got me ALONE...sien sien sien...

Sigh..shld not talk bout this lo..

today, went out with my cousins...First time to hang out all together=) in fact, just four of us=)
We went to watch the Alice in the Wonderland 3D show..









sigh..sad case..it wasn't as nice as expected..the story line no good, no climax at all, not touching, nothing make us excited to know more..just a very very normal movie..
no movie star for this movie..

the main character=)
Alice..


the white Queen..

the big head Red queen, sister of the white queen..



after the movie, we did some shopping then home sweet home=)
thats all for saturday..
ciaoz.........
xoxo

thanks God=)

thankx God..i got 1A, 2A- for those paper i took..

thankx God..I got a B for my FYP which i m really really put lots of effort on it=)

thankx God..I got a B+ for the PEDPublish Post that make me cant sleep tight everynight..

thankx God..I am OffICIALLY Graduated from my college=)

p/s: i m gonna miss my college life..like seriously=)

Good luck to all my frens who havent check their result..God will bless you all like HE blessed me=)

with LOVE, eeping

EARTH HOUR 2010

well, time really flied..2009 is gone and now we live in 2010 (two more years to 2012--the movie =.=)
okay, it's coming again..the EARTH HOUR event=)
It will be held on 27th March 2010 from 8.30pm - 9.30pm.i hope everyone can take part it this event, off light for an hour.

I mean not for that particular hour only, we should save our home energy usage as the earth is really really sick nowadays. People tends to feel uneasy, annoying, hot, frustrated, even can's concentrate in whatever they are doing. Ohmy, what's happening? what happened to our beloved earth? our earth, the place where we lived, the place where we are standing, eating, party-ing, enjoy-ing life, is gonna be over very very sooooooooon as the earth people still dun protect the earth..we must cherish every moment at here before the earth is gone..yeah~~i know it's still have long way to go, maybe we do not have the chance to watch the earth dead but how about our next generation?=)

here is the history of this event=)
Earth Hour began in Sydney in 2007, when 2.2 million homes and businesses switched off their lights for one hour. In 2008 the message had grown into a global sustainability movement, with 50 million people switching off their lights. Global landmarks such as the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, Rome’s Colosseum, the Sydney Opera House and the Coca Cola billboard in Times Square all stood in darkness.

In 2009, Earth Hour was taken to the next level, with the goal of 1 billion people casting their vote for Earth. Unlike any election in history, it is not about what country you’re from, but instead, what planet you’re from.

For more info, please visit:
http://ehm.my/
http://www.earthhour.org/

please support it=)

19句至理名言

I found this in my FB home page..i found it's kinda interesting..so i post here=)
it's quite true and i think is good for those who being emo always=)

19句至理名言

1、如果发短信息给一个人，他一直不回，不要再发了。没有这么卑微的等待。

2、如果没有人陪，学着一个人听音乐看书写点心情日记。这是个好习惯。

3、如果一个人很难过，找个角落或者在被子里哭一下，不需要别人同情可怜，哭过之后一样开心生活。

4、如果一个人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂珍惜你的人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的友情或爱情，到头来受伤的是自己他人不会为之难过。

5、如果可以不抽烟，别抽。如果可以不喝酒，别喝。这是不爱惜自己身体的表现，如果只因一些人，那么我们别傻了，爱你的人不会让你难过的。

6、伤心的时候找个信任的朋友诉说一下，不要一个人默默承受，这只会会更添寂寞感与忧伤。

7、不开心的时候白天看看蓝天晚上看看夜色，广阔的天空自有属于我们 爱，宁可高傲的发霉不要低调的恋爱。跟自己说我是最好的。保持一份自信。

8、宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞随手抓一个恋人，这对两人都不公平，而且太缺乏责任感。找个知己不要是恋人。

9、记住你喜欢的人的生日，包括你的家人，当然，还有自己。生日没有人送礼物也无所谓，你可以买精美的礼物，送给妈妈和爸爸。

10、闲下来的时候,放一段柔情音乐，翻阅几页好书，然后睡个懒觉，快哉。心情不好的时候,也可以睡一觉。

11、从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问别人想不想你？爱不爱你？若是要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，别人会很骄傲和不在乎你。

12、不要太在意一些人太在乎一些事，顺其自然以最佳心态面对，因为这世界就是这么不公平往往在最在乎的事物面前我们最没有价值。

13、不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。当然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。

14、任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说，说好话。多个朋友是好事，即使不是很要好的，总比因为自己说话不慎重不思考而多一个敌人好得多。

15、允许偶尔看肥皂剧，但不可成为依赖。允许偶尔披头散发，但要注重场合。允许偶尔骂脏话，但只限在老友面前或者独自一人时，记得说过后要忘掉那些让你难过的事。

16、一定要有几个异性朋友，没有非分之想.就是关键时候,帮你出出主意的好友。

17、学会承受痛苦自己调整心态。有些话，适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。当经历过，你成长了，自己知道就好。很多改变，不需要你自己说，别人会看得到。

18、能不和人争吵尽量避免。一个发怒的人是很恐怖的，会因控制不了情绪变成疯子。忍耐然后思索问题的根源最后平静心态解决它 。

19、不管和谁有了矛盾和别扭，解决的时间不要超过24小时。否则麻烦会更多。在可以接受的范围内，先道歉。让自己做做坏人不是件真的坏事。

生活可以很复杂以可以很简单，我们不要总是活在忧伤和痛苦之中，爱自己多一点！不为一些不值得的事物而觉得生活总是那么的痛苦无助，人生的方向盘掌握在我们自己手里，有一天阳光大道等着我们走，放开自己，高傲的活着，只要自己幸福开心的，痛苦过去的伤就让他随风而去吧....告诉世界我们属于现在而不是过去！

p/s: Dun be the RED one, be the fellow YELLOW as bright as you can and smile as broad as you can=)

If i become the memory

Yilin Sweetheart's 19th Bday

受伤了的心，就好像水晶球一样，不管用了世上超级无敌的万能胶也好，普通胶水也好，黏回了，始终都会是一粒有疤痕的水晶球。

我不能假装不知道， 不能让他知道我知道， 好辛苦=‘（

但我知道，他的心， 还是只有我。。。。。。。


ok, dun feel like want to talk about this..

ok..stop the EMO post here..

Well, yea~~ like the pre-previous post, i make the cuppa cake for my yilin..her 19th bday..
okay, let the picture do talking...

tala~~here is the cuppa cakes=)
nice? i bake it one by one and i blend cream, mix the cream colous myself=)
all by myself..
so called 一手一脚 , yat shao yat jiok, one hand one leg=)
lolx

for both of them..

three of us=)

me and my sweety..

her sis, yiwen=)

OMG~~after the celebration, it's a photo session..

We are in L.O.V.E

me and my sis=)

all gals gang and one boy=)
my aunty's family, my uncle and my family=)

our favourite place to take photo=)

act cute=)

damn it!!i looked FAT, in fact, i m fat=)

me me me....

a nice one...hihi

take 1..

take 2..

take 3..

take 4..

take 5..smile face=)

picture of the day=)

sad='(

我刚刚发现一些我不应该知道的事情， 我的眼泪一直流。。。一直流。。。
为什么？

怎么会这样？
是我想太多吗？

不是，是他骗我。。。。他真的骗我。。。。什么NS的朋友？什么打电玩？一个字。。。假！！！
我不能相信他竟然骗我。。我已开始不想跟他讲话， 不想把我的一颗真心交给他， 不想再被蒙在鼓里。。。。

我的心受伤了， 在淌血。。。。。。